3rd day: All on his own
- My heart was stomping so hard from the moment he got into school bus at 7.20am to 11.40am till I heard he safely got home again.
-He told waipo he cried because it's his first time in school
-He fall asleep in bus on the way home -Since he had nap in the bus already, he could not take any more nap in the noon, so he fall asleep at 7pm+ again till next morning, so I didn't have a chance to talk to him over school
4th day: Fear
-Finally I managed to talk to him while bringing him to wait for school bus. -He was so scared of need to assembly in the hall at level 2.
-I told him aunty say mummy need to pay if I want to take the school bus, so I'll meet him in school
-Daddy and me went to his school and since it was early we manage to talk to the teachers over his performance the day before
-We were told that he was temperemental in class. He snatch another kid's pencil, while another gal give her another pencil, he got angry. And refused to do the work in the chinese class -When he came over to English class, again he told Mrs Chai " I don't want to sit, I want to stand" and refused to join in handicraft time. But later on noticed that the rest were having so much fun pasting the egg shell to letter E, only then he started joining.
-I told the teacher over his fear of having to go to hall, teacher promised to guide him along.. -
Then Jared 's school bus reached school, saw Aunty had to hold his hand and pass him to teacher before leaving..hehe..He disappeared in sight for a while before we finally see him crying at hall at level 2..hehe...But Mrs Chai was with him all the time.
-We had to leave the school by now, cos it's almost 8am!..and i'm 20mins late for work..But my heart felt better...hehe..This is the first time I got so involved with his school, checking him up with teachers and bringing him there for so many days. hee..
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
So many worries
Tomorrow it will be Jared's 1st time taking school bus and school trip...I've been like a long tounge lady repeating and repeating the sequence of even to him.
1) Aunty said mummy cannot take the school bus anymore, so you had to go to school on your own.
2) When you reach school, show your hands to Mrs Chan, after that go to your class and put your bag, and then go to the toilet to wash your hands.
3) Then get a teacher to bring you up to the hall.
4) Then you sit by the blue line.
I wonder how much he absorbed. I wish I could be there to peep him to do all of these sequence correctly before I go to work..But daddy said, no worries, there will certainly be ppl notice him if he wondering around...
Also, Now I realised how bad it is to let him study in the big school. His classroom and the toilet, and the location to let teacher check his hands are all over. How could we expect a 3yr old to be able to find his way..and finally go to the 2nd level hall???
1) Aunty said mummy cannot take the school bus anymore, so you had to go to school on your own.
2) When you reach school, show your hands to Mrs Chan, after that go to your class and put your bag, and then go to the toilet to wash your hands.
3) Then get a teacher to bring you up to the hall.
4) Then you sit by the blue line.
I wonder how much he absorbed. I wish I could be there to peep him to do all of these sequence correctly before I go to work..But daddy said, no worries, there will certainly be ppl notice him if he wondering around...
Also, Now I realised how bad it is to let him study in the big school. His classroom and the toilet, and the location to let teacher check his hands are all over. How could we expect a 3yr old to be able to find his way..and finally go to the 2nd level hall???
2nd day @ TRBK
First day he nap 20mins in school bus, so when he reached home he was all energised..and refused to take afternoon nap. So he slept very early at nite 7pm+. So waking up for 2nd day wasn't difficult..he also ask me to accompany him to school.
When the school bus came, aunty make him sit with another kid..so I had to sit behind...He was like totally forgot about me....hehe
As usual after put bag and wash hands, they have to gather at the hall, at level 2, while waiting for rest of kids to arrive.
Jared told Mrs Patrick he need to pee, when she came back, She told me he is very well toilet trained. He even asked her is this(pointing to toilet bowl) small enough for me? Mrs Patrick is very glad that no help needed for him. But I told her, at hm he need to be help all the time...hee
Later, suddenly he cried aloud wanting to go back to classroom...Chinese teacher helped to pacify him by putting him on her lap..after sometime he was fine..and I left the hall before him.
Cos the day before when getting fr hall to classroom, he kept asking for me..So I would like to see if he can cope without me..Glad that he was alright throughout, even breakie time...
He ate and self fed very well...Most of the kiddos doesn't seemed to particularly like the food...I hardly see them eat actually. But doing the prayer with the hand gesture is still like alien to him..hehe..
He is much happier in this school, the teacher are loving and caring also. Another mummy told me that she sent the kid all the way from Bishan cos of the bigger compound, lively environment...I had to agree...
Even more better that it's open concept..so from some distance apart, I could peep at Jared, yet because of the gate make us adult not that noticeable.
I made Jared quit fr the PAP school becos both Lin lao shi and teacher jay are absolutely no patience and not loving at all, I always heard lin lao shi yell at the students. She would even complained that Jared is walking around the class ..which I think is pretty normal for active boys, as long as doesnt happen everyday.
Today even the school ride is slightly better for both of us..I hope tomorrow onwards, when Jared is on his own..He would still be able to handle everything..
When the school bus came, aunty make him sit with another kid..so I had to sit behind...He was like totally forgot about me....hehe
As usual after put bag and wash hands, they have to gather at the hall, at level 2, while waiting for rest of kids to arrive.
Jared told Mrs Patrick he need to pee, when she came back, She told me he is very well toilet trained. He even asked her is this(pointing to toilet bowl) small enough for me? Mrs Patrick is very glad that no help needed for him. But I told her, at hm he need to be help all the time...hee
Later, suddenly he cried aloud wanting to go back to classroom...Chinese teacher helped to pacify him by putting him on her lap..after sometime he was fine..and I left the hall before him.
Cos the day before when getting fr hall to classroom, he kept asking for me..So I would like to see if he can cope without me..Glad that he was alright throughout, even breakie time...
He ate and self fed very well...Most of the kiddos doesn't seemed to particularly like the food...I hardly see them eat actually. But doing the prayer with the hand gesture is still like alien to him..hehe..
He is much happier in this school, the teacher are loving and caring also. Another mummy told me that she sent the kid all the way from Bishan cos of the bigger compound, lively environment...I had to agree...
Even more better that it's open concept..so from some distance apart, I could peep at Jared, yet because of the gate make us adult not that noticeable.
I made Jared quit fr the PAP school becos both Lin lao shi and teacher jay are absolutely no patience and not loving at all, I always heard lin lao shi yell at the students. She would even complained that Jared is walking around the class ..which I think is pretty normal for active boys, as long as doesnt happen everyday.
Today even the school ride is slightly better for both of us..I hope tomorrow onwards, when Jared is on his own..He would still be able to handle everything..
Monday, March 23, 2009
Jared's new school
Jared started his new school today in the 2nd term at Thomson Road Baptist Kindergarden, its beside united square. But this time he had to take the school bus to school..
Now everyone had to adjust the clock 15mins earlier including Kaylen..I had to feed Kaylen slightly earlier, and all ready at the bus stop by 7.15am. The school bus turn and turn around Whampoa, Balestier, TTSH..finally arrive at school around 7.45am...By then I already giddy.
Every morning the will go up to the hall to assemble follow by church song...and today I even saw ex-celeb, He yong fang bringing her daughter there.
Jared had 2 serving of bread...the only one who ate so much!
The school compound...much bigger than his previous one...he got so happy when knock off...
Fall asleep on the bus immediately after got on...Then got frighten and keep crying when he knock something...and said don't want to go school anymore..hehe..
When we got home, I shared with my worries when he was cutting out the elephant all by himself, that he might cut the trunk. Then he continued to tell me, some one cut the nose..and the teacher said "Why you cut away the nose?"...and after that we all burst into laughter...
Now everyone had to adjust the clock 15mins earlier including Kaylen..I had to feed Kaylen slightly earlier, and all ready at the bus stop by 7.15am. The school bus turn and turn around Whampoa, Balestier, TTSH..finally arrive at school around 7.45am...By then I already giddy.
Every morning the will go up to the hall to assemble follow by church song...and today I even saw ex-celeb, He yong fang bringing her daughter there.
Jared had 2 serving of bread...the only one who ate so much!
The school compound...much bigger than his previous one...he got so happy when knock off...
Fall asleep on the bus immediately after got on...Then got frighten and keep crying when he knock something...and said don't want to go school anymore..hehe..
When we got home, I shared with my worries when he was cutting out the elephant all by himself, that he might cut the trunk. Then he continued to tell me, some one cut the nose..and the teacher said "Why you cut away the nose?"...and after that we all burst into laughter...
Saturday, March 21, 2009
Kaylen is 6month old!
-Eating & feeding
On 2 meals of rice cereal+puree. Loves water and cereal much more than milk. She likes to be seated on the high chair, it meant meal time for her...glutton gal! Jared last time even now can't sit still on high chair...simply cos he dun like eating.
-Physical development
Flipping on 1 side all the time, and can crawl backwards. Make me phobia of leaving her on bed. Sit unsupported for 10s for good days. In term of physical development she is so much more advance than koko. Koko can only do push up at 7-8mth and crawl backwards at 9mth.
Had her first fall on 19Mar09, 6mth 2wk old....I latch her on my parent's bed, and she manage to fall asleep at 8pm which she normally don't..And I was happily playing with Jared & watching tv in the living room...Then we heard a loud cry, when mum rush into the room, can't find Kaylen, later on she found her on the floor..hehehe...Lucky head on another mattress...She was alright, when she mum found her she has stop crying..hehe..
-Verbal
Very noisy when she "talk", yelling loud all the time -Relationship with koko poor gal being no. 2, the naughty koko would use toy airplane to hit her head....and she no feeling, no cry or anything..
When koko trying to disturb her, flip her over, she would smile happily thinking koko is playing with her...
Know how to fight toy with koko now...wah...Jared was playing a toy train that move with battery, after a few round letting the train move to Kaylen,she was angry when Jared took the toy train all on his own...So she yell & cry...and each time if Jared let her play, she's happy..hehe Must be a notti and more fierce gal next time..
-Weight 5mth: 7.3kg 65cm
6mth: 8kg 63.5cm (Her height up and down from mth to mth, wonder what's wrong..hah)
On 2 meals of rice cereal+puree. Loves water and cereal much more than milk. She likes to be seated on the high chair, it meant meal time for her...glutton gal! Jared last time even now can't sit still on high chair...simply cos he dun like eating.
-Physical development
Flipping on 1 side all the time, and can crawl backwards. Make me phobia of leaving her on bed. Sit unsupported for 10s for good days. In term of physical development she is so much more advance than koko. Koko can only do push up at 7-8mth and crawl backwards at 9mth.
Had her first fall on 19Mar09, 6mth 2wk old....I latch her on my parent's bed, and she manage to fall asleep at 8pm which she normally don't..And I was happily playing with Jared & watching tv in the living room...Then we heard a loud cry, when mum rush into the room, can't find Kaylen, later on she found her on the floor..hehehe...Lucky head on another mattress...She was alright, when she mum found her she has stop crying..hehe..
-Verbal
Very noisy when she "talk", yelling loud all the time -Relationship with koko poor gal being no. 2, the naughty koko would use toy airplane to hit her head....and she no feeling, no cry or anything..
When koko trying to disturb her, flip her over, she would smile happily thinking koko is playing with her...
Know how to fight toy with koko now...wah...Jared was playing a toy train that move with battery, after a few round letting the train move to Kaylen,she was angry when Jared took the toy train all on his own...So she yell & cry...and each time if Jared let her play, she's happy..hehe Must be a notti and more fierce gal next time..
-Weight 5mth: 7.3kg 65cm
6mth: 8kg 63.5cm (Her height up and down from mth to mth, wonder what's wrong..hah)
Interesting Conversation with Jared @ 3yr 4mth
Situation 1
It's mummy fav show time, Perfect Cut,..Thomas Wang, Wang tien chai...is just so handsome..and he is our neighbour too!.. So I got so engrossed watching and watching till Jared yell
Jared: Mummy, I want to pee pee, mummy pee pee pls...Mummyyyyyy...... pee pee pls
Me: sorry sorry sorry..
I'm glad he is saying pls at least..
Situation 2
My mum added thaw frozen breastmilk to Jared's milk
Jared: Waipo zhe shi xin de nai fen ma? Bu hao hei4, mai3 jiu de nai fen (Is this new fm? Not nice, next time pls buy old brand)
Situation 3
Jared going to start new school after the school holidays. He said he don't want to go new school , want to back to the pre-nursery at Blk 85, because Wo3 you3 yi4 dian3 pa4 (I'm a bit scared!..no one would believe this little kiddo think so much about the new school)
Situation 4
We are on the way back to Sembawang, listening to Jared's cd collection content songs and music. But lately he likely to listed to songs more.
So when the song cd finish, and music cd started...
Jared: Did I say I want to listen to music?
Wahhhh..noti boy
Situation 5
I was reading the rainbow fish book to Jared while carrying Kaylen on the sofa. But sofa turn grouchy, so I had to stand up to pacify Kaylen
Jared: Mummy, don't go away. I want to read books.
Situation 6
Jared: Can I play with clip daddy?
Daddy: No, you haven't clean up the mess
Jared: Don't worry daddy, I'm keeping
*Again we wahhhh, wonder how he learn to talk like this!*
It's mummy fav show time, Perfect Cut,..Thomas Wang, Wang tien chai...is just so handsome..and he is our neighbour too!.. So I got so engrossed watching and watching till Jared yell
Jared: Mummy, I want to pee pee, mummy pee pee pls...Mummyyyyyy...... pee pee pls
Me: sorry sorry sorry..
I'm glad he is saying pls at least..
Situation 2
My mum added thaw frozen breastmilk to Jared's milk
Jared: Waipo zhe shi xin de nai fen ma? Bu hao hei4, mai3 jiu de nai fen (Is this new fm? Not nice, next time pls buy old brand)
Situation 3
Jared going to start new school after the school holidays. He said he don't want to go new school , want to back to the pre-nursery at Blk 85, because Wo3 you3 yi4 dian3 pa4 (I'm a bit scared!..no one would believe this little kiddo think so much about the new school)
Situation 4
We are on the way back to Sembawang, listening to Jared's cd collection content songs and music. But lately he likely to listed to songs more.
So when the song cd finish, and music cd started...
Jared: Did I say I want to listen to music?
Wahhhh..noti boy
Situation 5
I was reading the rainbow fish book to Jared while carrying Kaylen on the sofa. But sofa turn grouchy, so I had to stand up to pacify Kaylen
Jared: Mummy, don't go away. I want to read books.
Situation 6
Jared: Can I play with clip daddy?
Daddy: No, you haven't clean up the mess
Jared: Don't worry daddy, I'm keeping
*Again we wahhhh, wonder how he learn to talk like this!*
Friday, March 20, 2009
Angry and angry and more more angry
I submited Kaylen's pic for Sean Lau's photography which they will be shooting for an adverstisement.
And just got a call that she got short listed!
But but...they looking for baby who can crawl!!....Kaylen still can't ...arrrghhhh
So i told them if you want to look for baby who can crawl steadily, pls find those 9mth! arrrghhh...Kaylen can't even sit on her own steadily yet...
Another thing, I'm flattered!..It looks like every contest they we try to submit her pic in, she will get to be short listed...hehe.. The lady who called also say she very very cute...and she would put her in profile in case next time ppl look for baby model again!...
Ok, she normally don't look as good as this pic...hehe..I cheated a bit to send in the best pic hehehe..and lately she's getting a little too fat to look good also..Haiz..
Sunday, March 1, 2009
The day where everything is wrong...The Finals 1 Mar 2009..
The day started with Jared & me taking daddy's car on the way to Sembawang...We didn't get to go back for the weekend, because daddy is extremely bz. So I took Jared back with me since the camera battery need to re-charge, no matter what, I had to go back Sembawang..
I brought him to NTUC to get the Gain Kid offer with the voucher, but one of it expire!...I even bought together a shopping trolley..but now I'm only buying 2 tin of 900g gain kid instead of 3. I still go ahead to get the trolley, since Jared had a good time pushing the trolley...hehe...I didn't have to touch it, he push them all the way home.
Then at home, he asked for some drinks, so I let him have the meiji strawberry milk...to my dismay he pour it every where on the floor...So I had to clean up the floor... After his lunch, we left for Whampoa.
We had to take the MRT ourselves, it's probaly the 1st time ever i brought Jared out alone for such long train ride...Guess what? nobody give out seat to us despite Jared said loudly he wanted to sit!...He requested me to carry him on some part of journey...and his 15kg weight is really not an easy task...
Finally when we got a seat at Bishan, he fall asleep...My god, it's even big trouble now..I was carrying my pump, cooler bag with ice brick, a new 900g Gain kid, and my own bag...PLUS now a 15kg Jared...hehehe...
So I position myself properly way before train reached TPY...carry him with me, together with 2 other bag,leave the MRT, and tap my EZlink and heads to take bus 139. Luckily I could get a seat, and quickly call my mum to come to bus stop to wait for us...
Then everything was fine till super big rain with super big thunder...daddy came back to pick us to expo. I got shock how nice each contestant are in the finals...then after a long wait finally the contest starts. When we are at the backstage, Kaylen keep crying non stop..and she was the only contestant who cry..the rest were they happily and smiling all the time...
I had to call daddy to bring us water..and while she drinks she even close her eyes wanting to sleep...At the same time I also noticed her dress's stictches came off!!..It's such a big mess now...
So when it's time to go out on stage..I talk rubbish, and Kaylen bo sim keep looking at the table instead of judges... Arggghhh..
My mood was really bad at that time, I'm angry with daddy who's able to make her smile refuse to go up stage, and prepare script for me to say, yet don't want to say himself...Angry plus more angry.. Anyway, even we do our best, we won win the contest...Cos the judge by chubbiest cheek only..And not overall balance and pretty looking...
The good thing was we weren't the 1st to be called out during consolation prize annoucement..hehehe...Quite dissapointed with the prize though, it just some Gaia samples + 1 teether...worst than their early bird goodie bag...
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